So here's the deal...He wants to have sex, whenever but! There is never any foreplay! I feel like it's my fault because we've been married for 4 years and I never cared about foreplay til the last yearish. The thing is, i will flat out tell him what I want or need from hima nd he still wont do it. Then he will complain if we don't have sex for awhile. I give in sometimes because I know he has needs and I do want to have sex but honestly...
I NEVER ORGASM! I have ONE TIME in my life because its all about him.... We've talked and talked and I know its affecting everything else. I'm irritated with him so easily and I'm unhappy. And then that reflects in how I am sexually with him its one huge circle.
If it's never going to change, do I need to accept this? I dont know how to deal with it. & he never compliments me. EVER. Not even during sex. I can tell him word for word what I need and all he will say is OK. I'm pretty insecure all the time after 4 years, getting pregnant, PCOS causing me to gain 100lbs during pregnancy and losing 120, and still no compliments. I just feel bad now all the time and I dont know what to do or what questions to ask..... I'm confused I guess =(
Asked by Anonymous at 2:41 AM on Dec. 6, 2010 in Relationships
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