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For the past few days my boyfriend has been putting me down constantly... He doesn't hit me very hard but he does hit me... His words are very very hurtful, and he seems to be posessed or something... He told me i better loose these kids or else he's leaving me.... i don't even know what happened to him... I don't even know this guy in my house anymore.... What happened?? What should i do??

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MargieMitchell

Asked by MargieMitchell at 8:08 AM on Dec. 6, 2010 in Relationships

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  • Get rid of him as fast as possible.
    tootoobusy

    Answer by tootoobusy at 8:12 AM on Dec. 6, 2010

  • You should LEAVE!
    shanlaree

    Answer by shanlaree at 8:13 AM on Dec. 6, 2010

  • I WANT too but he told me if i tried i would be sorry! ??
    MargieMitchell

    Comment by MargieMitchell (original poster) at 8:14 AM on Dec. 6, 2010

  • Sweetheart, You need to get youre Kids andf Leave, get out of that house beforew something realy bad happens, i am sorry youre going through this sending you a hug please call someone freind , family and get to a safer place.Dont stick around to find out whats wrong with him?? He should have never put his hands on you!!
    SparklingMom78

    Answer by SparklingMom78 at 8:15 AM on Dec. 6, 2010

  • Document EVERYTHING... Call the cops and have them there when you and the kids leave. Get a restraining order put on him and get as far away from him as possible.
    shanlaree

    Answer by shanlaree at 8:17 AM on Dec. 6, 2010

  • I want to but he knows where everyone of my friends are he has everyones numbers, he knows where everyone of my family members are and he has the numbers... Its like he planned it and he put a tracking device in my phone and GPS.... what the heck now??
    MargieMitchell

    Comment by MargieMitchell (original poster) at 8:20 AM on Dec. 6, 2010

  • Get a no contact order and call the cops next time he hits you. I'm so sorry your going through this
    Heidikans

    Answer by Heidikans at 8:21 AM on Dec. 6, 2010

  • Also leave your phone somewhere or drive to the police station. That way you'll be safe and he'll be arrested. Go now get the kids and go!
    Heidikans

    Answer by Heidikans at 8:23 AM on Dec. 6, 2010

  • go file a restraining order & THEN go somwhere to stay. If he finds you, call the cops & they will arrest him.

    Do that, or agree to being in an abusive relationship & put you & your children at risk. Your choice.
    samurai_chica

    Answer by samurai_chica at 8:24 AM on Dec. 6, 2010

  • Its just me... when he says something will happen to the kids he means like hit me to get rid of them,... this is my 1st time pregnant, and im having twins... Im PETRIFIED!
    MargieMitchell

    Comment by MargieMitchell (original poster) at 8:26 AM on Dec. 6, 2010

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