DH and I and our DD will be going to my home for Christmas. Recently I have been friends with an old flame on FB. He is NOT an old boyfriend, we nenver even fooled around becasue he is about 5 years older then me but there were a lot of feelings there... And by the time I was of age, he had moved on. No biggie, I left home and eventually got married had a baby and am living my life. DH is in no way upset about me being friends with said "flame". We were friends for a LONG time before we had feelings for eachother. I have not seen him in about 4-5 years. What I ever felt I dont knw if I ever "loved" him or not. Like Is aid we were very constricted on whatever relationship we could of had becasue I was so much younger. (I was 16 when it started and almost 18 when he moved in with nother woman). Im just so nervuose becasue he was/is such good friends with my brother and I know he will be around when Im home. Im nervouse becasue I hope to god that those feelings will stay where we left them. He is single now, and since then he has been talking to me more and more on FB. I KNOW I love my husband and would do nothing to hurt him, I just really dont want to leave home to come back here knowing that my old flame wants me, ya know. I really hope I dont leave there wanting him as well.... so my question is.
In this situation, would you tell your DH or S/O that this old friend was really a little mroe than that, or just leave it alone and never say a word?
Like I said I refuse to let anything happen between us, I will not be that wife becasue I really do love my man.
Asked by Anonymous at 8:24 AM on Dec. 6, 2010 in Relationships
Answer by amybaby_19 at 8:40 AM on Dec. 6, 2010
Answer by Anonymous at 8:28 AM on Dec. 6, 2010
Answer by Anonymous at 8:53 AM on Dec. 6, 2010
Answer by Heidikans at 8:29 AM on Dec. 6, 2010
Answer by Anonymous at 11:37 AM on Dec. 6, 2010
I don't know why you would tell your husband that you used to or might still have feelings for friend. If your are not going to pursue it, why stir things up? Why make your DH feel uncomfortable? make no sense to upset someone when there is no reason to. JMO
Answer by Shines3 at 2:26 PM on Dec. 6, 2010
Answer by ShouldHaveLeft at 2:38 PM on Dec. 6, 2010