My husband has 2 brothers who are almost 20 years older than him ( he was a surpirse baby lol ) ... and we are having a bit of a problem with one of them ... even though I am nice to him and would love for us to have a good relationship with him it hasnt happened and I doubt it will ( the only time we see them is occasionaly when we go to MILs, and we do have a good relationship with his other brother too ) .... I guess I dont like them ( he and his wife) for certain reasons like he has an older daughter with another woman, when she was about 3 years old ( when he started dating his wife) he stopped seeing her because his wife was too jealous of the girls mom .. my husband now that he is older ( we are in our early 20s) tried to start a relationship with his leice ( we went to her graduation and talk to her alot ) .... and we found out they told her they havent been seeing her on Christmas because they didnt have money for a gift for her ( but yet they spent over $600 on their teen son's gifts)
So I guess in my opinion that shows how they are ....
But our problem is.... last year we went to try and buy a house and we couldnt someone had used my husbands ID and got a few different cell phones in his name that they didnt pay on, they also took a rent to own account in his name and of course stopped paying, there is also other things and it came back that we lived at 2 places that we never lived at - but his brother has !..
So obviously his brother is using his SS#, we are unable to buy a house, get a new car, and my husband has missed out on 2 jobs that he wanted ( wasnt able to get them since he has bad credit) ...... we have always made sure we have our bills paid on time ( usually early ) ... we even lived with my parents for 3 years so we could save money just to buy a house and now it all seems pointless because we dont have enough to pay off what his brother has racked up and we were also told that it will take sooo long for it to even get off of our credit ....
what would you do ? Turn him in ? How would you turn him in ....and would you still do it if your mother in law said " not to do anything, she will talk to him"
Asked by Anonymous at 9:32 AM on Dec. 6, 2010 in Relationships
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