we argue ever other day, i keep what i feel inside so it wont turn into an arguement, he says he is tired and i should jus leave. but if i do then there will be a fight about if my son stays or goes. i want to avoid problems i already have enough going on...i am 4 months and ready to leave the relationship alone!!! things take time but how do you know that it will change. we been together for a long time now and things are okay then quickly it changes. When the baby comes in May i dont want to go through the same issues all over...how do you know when enough is truly enough. i am 24 and have no one to talk to...i seriously considering counseling.
Answer by nwaskie at 3:30 PM on Dec. 6, 2010
The question here is really "what are you fighting about?" If it's finances, you are in the same boat as many many others. This economy has really put a lot of stress on families & relationships. I do NOT agree with ShouldHaveLeft! I have been married 18 years and every relationship has it's ups & downs. If it is finances then do you work? Maybe even a few hours a week or on weekends when your SO can watch your child. I am sure he would appreciate it. Maybe he is stressed & then words that we don't really mean come out of our mouths. What does he really want? I think you should try & talk without hurtful words even if he can't right now because if your relationship was strong in the past, it is still there somewhere and hopefully this will pass soon. Good luck & be strong and work it out as best as you can and there will be brighter days.
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