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Should my beliefs be considered a factor in whether I have custody of my kids? Even if I am an atheist?

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sahmamax2

Asked by sahmamax2 at 4:13 PM on Dec. 6, 2010 in Religious Debate

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  • Absolutely not.
    ObbyDobbie

    Answer by ObbyDobbie at 4:14 PM on Dec. 6, 2010

  • NO NO and NO. All that should matter is who is better fit to take care of the kids such as stability or finances. Religion should play no part in custody and needs to stay out of custody hearings.
    mommy_of_two388

    Answer by mommy_of_two388 at 4:14 PM on Dec. 6, 2010

  • Religious beliefs cannot be held against you unless the religion is somehow endangering the children.
    Scuba

    Answer by Scuba at 4:14 PM on Dec. 6, 2010

  • Technically, one shouldn't have anything to do with the other. Religious beliefs or the lack thereof, should be left out of it. Parenting and religion are two separate issues.
    specialwingz

    Answer by specialwingz at 4:15 PM on Dec. 6, 2010

  • – collapse
    Your x may consider it a dealbreaker and the court has to listen to his concerns. Wouldn't you want his beliefs factored in if he believed in human sacrifice or some other non-traditional belief?
    admckenzie

    Answer by admckenzie at 4:16 PM on Dec. 6, 2010 (hidden) + expand

  • Only if shown to be damaging to their health or well-being. Simply not believing in a god (definition of Atheist) is not grounds for losing your children, there would have to be contributing factors to the issue and then your religion or lack of shouldn't be mentioned if it was not part of the cause.
    KristiS11384

    Answer by KristiS11384 at 4:16 PM on Dec. 6, 2010

  • I'm an atheist as well, and so far as I know it may be a bias that legally shouldn't affect the outcome of your custody battle. Was your partner also atheist? Or is he using this against you as if it could affect anything?
    Skepticchick

    Answer by Skepticchick at 4:18 PM on Dec. 6, 2010

  • if he believed in human sacrifice or some other non-traditional belief?

    You put human sacrifice and "non-traditional belief" in the same category???? By that standard you wouldn't even want Hindus or Buddhists to keep their kids since they're so grossly outnumbered in the US.
    NotPanicking

    Answer by NotPanicking at 4:18 PM on Dec. 6, 2010

  • – collapse
    We get it! Non-Christians are treated horribly in the world and every Christian should be held accountable. Get off the bandwagon and start having some original thoughts and questions. Non-Christians call us brainwashed and unable to think for ourselves, but you women take the cake.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 4:18 PM on Dec. 6, 2010 (hidden) + expand

  • No, only your parenting skills not your religious beliefs. 

    RyansMom001

    Answer by RyansMom001 at 4:18 PM on Dec. 6, 2010

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