when you thought maybe i made a mistake in marrying this person? i have been thinking i have done just that. on the one hand i think no one is perfect and i'm committed but then i think he is just someone i really don't like at all. have we grown apart in just 2 yrs of marriage? it's not that he is abusive which he is not. he is good to my kids, well he clashes with my older son. he is very irresponsible and can be very childish which at first in dating i thought made me feel young. we have commen ground on how to raise our kids for the most part. what i seem hard to deal with his way of dealing with money and how he doesn't take anything serious. he spends it like crazy. i've tried everything. selling stuff, finance counslor, etc etc. i had hoped i would find an older man with some security and more interests. instead got a younger guy. who smoothered me when dating that i was sick of it. i guess it grew on me. although now looking back on it. wish i had had more seperate time to figure out if he was or wasn't the man to marry. i was just so sure he was the one and i didn't have any cold feet when we did. is it normal to think maybe i made a mistake? did you stick it out or leave? i was divorced for 12 yrs and i wouldn't care if i was single all over again.
Asked by Anonymous at 6:25 PM on Dec. 6, 2010 in Relationships
Answer by -LovingMamma- at 6:42 PM on Dec. 6, 2010
If you do not see being with him for a long time. Leave him. Don't make your self miserable.
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