I am currently going through martial problems with my husband.... My sister invited me to come stay with her in her spare room until after christmas ... I accepted and though that it would be a great time... I havent actually seen my sister in a long time I am alot older than her ( she is 24 and I am closer to 40 ) and we also live a few states apart... Well after a few nights I realized I wasnt having the time I though I would... She is more of the susie homemaker type and spends the whole day chasing her little kids around and cleaning ( My kids are teens and dont need as much attention and we had a cleaning woman come twice a week, so this was really different staying at her house)........
ANYWAYS ... I will admit I was trying to drowned myself in alchol and self pity because I am afraid to lose my husband and the life I had ( I actually thought by coming here for awhile would make him and my kids miss me and appreciate me more )...
and I hate to admit it but one night I stayed up and drank at her house, I was watching some movie and her husband came down stairs ( not sure why ) ..... we ended up kissing - well making out and she came down to see us !!!!
I feel very badly that she seen us, but i guess I got caught up in the moment of a man who is a little younger than me ( he is 29 ) being attracted to me .... But on the other hand all we did was kiss we did NOT have sex or even take any clothing off.... I dont think she should blow it out of portion as she did....
I think her husband is the slime in this , and should be in "more trouble" than me.... he even tried to come to the hotel with me when she told us to both leave ....
But anyways i do feel very badly and I want my sister to forgive me, but I do not know how to go about in doing that ( send her flowers and a letter explaining myself ? )
Asked by Anonymous at 9:11 PM on Dec. 6, 2010 in Relationships
You crossed a line, blood looks out for each other not cause each other pain.
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