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what should I do & how should I feel about my husbands niece still talking 2his ex girlfriend???

My husband has a niece named Kayla, she's 18. When my husband was 18 til he was 21 dated this girl named shay. Well, shay cheated on him numerous times& treated him bad... so he broke up w/her! Well my husbands niece kept talking 2her & still does til this day! I can't understand why my husbands niece would want 2keep talking 2a girl that hurt her uncle!!!! About a year& ahalf ago my husbands niece gave shay(my husbands ex) his# & she called him wanting 2talk while he was offshore working! Of course he hung up on her. Then just recently shay& her" husband" started some Shit w/me& my husband& my husbands niece took their side over her own blood!!!!! Btw my husbands exs "husband" said he was goib 2beat my husbands ass & my husbands niece still took their damn side!!!!! I don't understand& im trying 2be patient w/her& this situation, but...... ITS DRIVING ME CRAZY& I CANG TAKE IT ANYMORE! I personally don't like what she's doin& how my husbands niece is still talking 2an ex of his from like 7yrs ago! She always says: I need my uncle, I want 2see my uncle& do things w/him& she cries about it, but yet she never wants 2do anything w/us because ....... SHE IS ALWAYS WANTING 2DO SHIT W/MY HUSBANDS EX& HER" HUSBAND"! it makes no Damn sense& I personally think that she needs 2quit talking 2her & start talking& spending time w/her blood w/her uncle like that!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Im just so mad& frustrated!!!!!!! What should I do!?!?!?!???!!!?????

 
GracesMommy2006

Asked by GracesMommy2006 at 10:25 PM on Dec. 6, 2010 in Relationships

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  • I could have written most of this myself. My husband's niece and nephew, both in their 20's now, decided to reacquaint themselves with my husband's ex-wife after 10 years of divorce. They were kids when the divorce happened. His ex was a nightmare to my husband (who is super nice to a fault) and to their now teenage son who lives with us, because she was so awful to him. She is a dead beat mom who mentally abused her son. His niece says, "Ima grown-ass woman, I can be friends with whoever I want." True, but why? She's an ass. Both the niece and nephew are kind of stupid, if I can be blunt, but the niece tries to be tough.

    We cut them off completely. I don't want them near my baby son, because I want him to learn that family has each other's backs. I was raised that family doesn't treat each other this way. They are a bad example of family. I understand your frustration, because it makes no sense.
    CarriePM

    Answer by CarriePM at 10:50 PM on Dec. 6, 2010

  • Then do yourself a favor and cut her out of your lives if she's causing drama.
    mommy_of_two388

    Answer by mommy_of_two388 at 10:34 PM on Dec. 6, 2010

  • Regardless the girl is grown and can talk to whomever she wishes, however I do agree that she should not help instigate trouble.
    405mom

    Answer by 405mom at 10:27 PM on Dec. 6, 2010

  • She has no right to give your all's phone number to anyone. But she can be friends with who ever she chooses. She is just stirring trouble.
    dancinintherain

    Answer by dancinintherain at 10:29 PM on Dec. 6, 2010

  • Yea, I know she's grown but it causes so much tention within the family. Like I mentioned earlier she want 2spend time w/her uncle& she cries about it& how she wants 2come over 2our house or see him but- -- she doesn't cause she's always w/them! It makes no sense.
    GracesMommy2006

    Comment by GracesMommy2006 (original poster) at 10:31 PM on Dec. 6, 2010

  • I know dancinintherain! But when she starts her Shit& it gets out of control she wants 2cry like a little Damn baby! I personally think that in a sick way, she wants us fighting over her 4the attention! Im just fed up!! & I think its stupid that she would turn her back on her own blood like that!
    GracesMommy2006

    Comment by GracesMommy2006 (original poster) at 10:35 PM on Dec. 6, 2010

  • I would cut her out of our life, but we have 2deal w/her alot of the time& see her cause she's @ all the family get 2gethers & @ my husbands moms house all the time! So.... its just not all that easy or simple.
    GracesMommy2006

    Comment by GracesMommy2006 (original poster) at 10:38 PM on Dec. 6, 2010

  • I say stay out of it. She's a grown woman and can talk to who ever she wants.
    mommy_of_two388

    Answer by mommy_of_two388 at 10:26 PM on Dec. 6, 2010