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how do you tell him he is not the one?

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Asked by CMHforever30 at 12:16 AM on Dec. 7, 2010 in Relationships

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  • Just be honest!

    Answer by cornflakegirl3 at 12:18 AM on Dec. 7, 2010

  • Just tell him...

    Answer by tracylyn245 at 12:19 AM on Dec. 7, 2010

  • Well, ask yourself this question? How would you like to be told your NOT the one? Then take it from there. Remember this though always, always walk out in the love of God.

    Answer by nwaskie at 12:21 AM on Dec. 7, 2010

  • "I'm sorry I have to tell you this, and I know we'll both be better off in the long run, but I really don't feel you are the one for me. I think continuing this would be wasting both of our time".

    Answer by hobbitswife04 at 12:27 AM on Dec. 7, 2010

  • I just say "this isn't working for me"

    Answer by admckenzie at 12:31 AM on Dec. 7, 2010

  • "It's over." Yes, it's always hard, especially if you DO still care about him, but now you're setting him free to find the right one for him, too. If you don't think he's the one, you need to be honest. Good luck, honey, you can do it!

    Answer by musicpisces at 1:08 AM on Dec. 7, 2010

  • Maybe write your feelings down so you have them sorted and then go from there. Be honest.

    Answer by jillrebecca3 at 1:40 AM on Dec. 7, 2010

  • good luckjust be honest and be nice about it; the truth will set u free to pursue potential suitable mates.


    Answer by maya123 at 1:53 AM on Dec. 7, 2010

  • tell him ... be honest

    Answer by jojo153 at 9:53 AM on Dec. 7, 2010

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