I'm 24 weeks pregnant with my ex's daughter. We are 9 years apart in age (I'm 27 he's 19) and had only been dating for about a month when I found out I was indeed pregnant. He pushed and pushed for me to abort...but I just couldn't go through with it. He's been mean, cruel, borderline abusive since I told him I was going through with the pregnancy and it got worse after I decided I was keeping it. After I find out that she was a girl, he apologized and begged me to involve him, saying that he was still in love with me. It's been a month since then, and he's barely talked to me, and from what I hear from the grapevine is still acting like a jackass. My mother tells me that I just need to tell him the three little words to get him out of my life for good. (It's not yours.) My friends mostly agree with her. They don't like him and don't understand what I saw in him at all. I did fall for him, and I feel like he should be included...but this constant back/forth is stressing me out beyond belief. I'm exhausted and sick all the time.
I sincerely doubt that he's going to step up and actually parent our daughter. I don't want to put her through the stress he's put me through after she's born. I am so completely lost.
Feel free to give your best advice, but please limit the criticism...I've got all I can handle.
Answer by FluffyMamaBunny at 3:21 AM on Dec. 7, 2010
Answer by Liansmommie at 3:25 AM on Dec. 7, 2010
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