My son is almost 18, right now he is dating a almost 19 year old. Last night was the first time I saw the abuse. I went to pick him up at his gfs house and she was yelling "F you," I hate you," and some other really bad things. When he was walking away from her she jumped on his back and started to hit him on the head. It took her brother and a neighbor guy to take her off of him. Then she still was kicking and screaming and hitting those guys. The police finally showed up.
The thing is this has been happening for awhile now, but my son didn't tell me until yesterday after I saw what happen. He said he was done with her but last night she called, to say that she was sorry to him, that she loves him and that she couldn't live with out him. Of course he forgave her, then told me that he should had took her out to dinner instead of paying his bills.
I am like, wow, I can't believe that my son is in this kind of relationship. His dad and I have no abuse in ours, I don't see how he thinks this is ok. I always worried if I had a dd that she could be abused but never thought it would be my son.
What should I do? I told him she is not welcome in our house anymore, and until he is 18 he can't see her. He flipped, told me I can't keep him away from her. I don't know maybe I need to stay out of it, because he is almost 18.
Asked by Anonymous at 6:46 PM on Dec. 7, 2010 in Teens (13-17)
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