people post things and then complain when you give advice?
Today I have answered several questions and then just as I post it I read the other responses. And the OP has said "didn't ask for your sympathy, advice or etc I just want to know if anyone else is experiencing the same" Not the exact words but that is close. I don't understand. If I vent about something I would like to hear things that could make it better. I don't want to hear "oh, I understand it's the same thing with me" I want to know how to make whatever I am talking about better. My DH always says things like "I understand" "I hear what you're saying" that is the most irritating thing, I want to hear something helpful. I give advice on here because I think people are looking for it. Am I wrong? I'm sorry that old phrase "they don't want you to fix the problem, they want you to listen" is just plain stupid. I want to find a fix to my problems! I dont' want to just vent or bitch about something and leave it be. I want to make things better. These things weren't rude either just people posting advice.
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