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how do know if your man is cheating on you

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just-thinking

Asked by just-thinking at 10:53 PM on Dec. 7, 2010 in Relationships

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  • He comes home and showers immediately
    butterflyblue19

    Answer by butterflyblue19 at 10:54 PM on Dec. 7, 2010

  • Crafty26

    Answer by Crafty26 at 10:54 PM on Dec. 7, 2010

  • He sleeps with other women. LOL. Sorry couldn't help myself.


     Is he not coming home? Is he being secretive? What's going on?

    Cindy18

    Answer by Cindy18 at 10:55 PM on Dec. 7, 2010

  • He has no interest in you like he once did. He gets mad for no reason. He trys to sneak phone calls. One obvious on is seeing intimate texts from someone else on his phone.
    sweetpea1217

    Answer by sweetpea1217 at 10:56 PM on Dec. 7, 2010

  • There are always signs...first of all try to get ahold of his cell phone bill or better yet if you have access to his account (men are stupid, they forget they give us access and then give the whores their number), check to see if there is a number that he's been calling recently for extended periods of time and only talking on that number when he's not home or around you. Watch him, women change their styles, fashion, etc. according to the trends and season, men don't they are creatures of habit and will wear the same shirt till it rots off his back...watch to see if all of a sudden he's overly concerned with his appearance or hygiene, or you will catch him looking at himself in the mirror or he will start trimming his pubic hair and have breath mints and cologne with him at all times. Another thing is that he may become overly sexed with you (this is out of guilt and you should be careful because he can give you
    ShouldHaveLeft

    Answer by ShouldHaveLeft at 10:58 PM on Dec. 7, 2010

  • Check cell/phone history, internet history, hire a P.I.

    I found out my husband was being an internet whore just by checking his internet history online.
    Nanixh

    Answer by Nanixh at 10:59 PM on Dec. 7, 2010

  • continued...

    whatever nasty disease he picks up from the cum dumpster). Whatever you do, do not let him know that you are on to anything because that will just make him a better cheater (I made that mistake and SO went out and got a second cell phone, found that one too), wait till you have all the amo and then hit him with it. Another one, if he normally answers your calls or calls you back right away etc and now he unreachable (at a clients house) for hours at a time and doesn't answer his phone and no one knows where he it, that's another hint. If any of these come into play, you now have to up the situation, take the number you suspect and run it through intellius.com...find out who the bitch is. You'll have more luck tracking her, then him. He knows to look for you, she doesn't. Good luck.
    ShouldHaveLeft

    Answer by ShouldHaveLeft at 11:01 PM on Dec. 7, 2010

  • He accuses YOU of cheating.
    musicpisces

    Answer by musicpisces at 11:06 PM on Dec. 7, 2010

  • you girls want to know something..You wont know..there are no signs..He wont shower right away..there wont be lip stick on his clothes or he wont smell like her..if he does then he is not good at it. The truth is the good ones you wont know..He will shower before he leaves her place cause he carries extra shampoo with him. He will take all his clothes onces he gets there so to make sure not to get her sent on them .. She wont wear make up or perfume so not to get anything on him. He will tell you he is having lunch or is at a meeting but he is with her. coming home late is the old way of doing it. I have seen it first hand and I'm truely shocked what men are able to get away with. and useally they will have a girl far from his home but somewhat close to his work. And these dateing site are not for single people any more..85% of the men on there are married looking for a girl friend on the side.
    Valdilene

    Answer by Valdilene at 11:49 PM on Dec. 7, 2010

  • Ask him. Watch his body language. Are you a good lie detector?

    sexyfancyface

    Answer by sexyfancyface at 12:39 AM on Dec. 8, 2010

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