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Just Wondering??

I thought labour the second time etc was supposed to be shorter than the first time?
Both of my labours lasted for 13 hours.

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vleigh

Asked by vleigh at 11:21 PM on Dec. 7, 2010 in Babies (0-12 months)

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  • Every labor is different. Yes, in general, second labors are shorter than first labors, but not always.
    musicpisces

    Answer by musicpisces at 11:27 PM on Dec. 7, 2010

  • every preg is diff
    NevansMommy

    Answer by NevansMommy at 12:04 AM on Dec. 8, 2010

  • With my mom her second labor was almost twice as long as the first.
    JuneBug1985

    Answer by JuneBug1985 at 8:19 AM on Dec. 8, 2010

  • there are no "suppose to be's" !
    HappyMomma86

    Answer by HappyMomma86 at 10:26 AM on Dec. 8, 2010

  • Generally speaking, second and subsequent labors are shorter than the first because your body ideally already knows what it's doing, so it's kind-of acting from memory, so to speak. But that's not always the case. Sometimes your body might get it right the first time, and there's nothing to do better the second time. Or something can be different the second time, like more stress or baby's not as ready, to make it last longer. There are generalizations to pregnancy and labor/delivery, but no rules. Each one should be taken as a new experience.
    DragonRiderMD

    Answer by DragonRiderMD at 10:40 AM on Dec. 8, 2010

  • Each of my three labors has lasted longer than the previous one ( 5.5 hours, 8 hours, 11 hours) and all three were induced, so go figure.
    1smartcookie

    Answer by 1smartcookie at 10:45 AM on Dec. 8, 2010

  • Every one is going to be different.. My first one lasted 17 hours.. & my second lasted 2 hours.
    SuperrMommyy

    Answer by SuperrMommyy at 10:46 AM on Dec. 8, 2010

  • My first 3 were all the same, about 24 hours from start to finish. So with my 4th I was expecting about the same but with him it was only 10 hours.
    riotgrrl

    Answer by riotgrrl at 1:17 PM on Dec. 8, 2010

  • with my son my labor lasted about 9hrs. im currently prego with my second child, so im curious to see if this one will be longer or shorter
    youngmami07

    Answer by youngmami07 at 3:41 PM on Dec. 9, 2010

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