I am engaged to a man who I love more than anything ! I know he has made alot of mistakes - especially with his first wife.... but I do not think that should make a difference in the way I am treated !
He was married and has 2 kids with her.... I do not like her because I think she thinks she still has entitlement to my future inlaws ... and they obviously do not realize she is the past and i am the future...
Her and MIl still go shopping together, she still visits inlaws house with and without the kids, this past Thanksgiving I even had to make my hubby leave early because she had to show up and stay with the kids...
They were only married for 3 years ( divorced after she got pregnant with the second kid) ...and that was over 5 years ago...
Mother in law and father in law barely acknowledge me and I have been around for 7 months...
What would you do ?!?!?
Asked by Anonymous at 9:13 AM on Dec. 8, 2010 in Relationships
Give it some time. 7 months isn't that long and they are probably in contact with her for the grand children and you can't fault them for that. GL
Answer by zbee at 9:17 AM on Dec. 8, 2010
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Answer by Anonymous at 9:55 AM on Dec. 8, 2010
I would give them some time and let them get to know you. Maybe invite them to your home for dinner, so no worries of the ex being there. If it were my in-laws they would welcome anyone but me. But, you really don't want people like my in-laws in your life! The fact that they really do like the first wife shows that at least there is hope for you. Good luck!
Answer by scout_mom at 9:56 AM on Dec. 8, 2010
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