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When is the time right?

How did you know when it was the right time to have another baby? I have one dd who is 9. I am ready to have another but I guess Im just scared. You know all the unanswered questions. I have to go back to work and I wonder who would watch the baby? Can hubby switch shifts? What doctor would I use? How can I add anymore to our busy life? I know these things just come together. I had my dd out of wedlock and it was a struggle and I had alot on my plate. I am now married and I feel the time getting close and then all these questions start to panic me. I have a really hard time making a decision unless I have every detail worked out..How did you know the time was right? I want to just do it, but I dont want to be reckless...


Asked by ria7 at 11:14 AM on Dec. 8, 2010 in General Parenting

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  • well first talk to your husband see what he says. then write down all your financial and see if you would be able to afford another baby. i have a 4 month and dont want anymore anytime soon. but you dont wanna wait to long my mom waited 9 years to have me and i just now got outta the house and shes 50 so you gotta think bout how old you will be when they finally leave the house.

    Answer by ajsmommy0801 at 11:20 AM on Dec. 8, 2010

  • You'll know when its right. Dont worry about anything in the future until after youre pregnant.

    Answer by bseastrand at 11:21 AM on Dec. 8, 2010

  • Only you know what is right for you
    I want my kids to be like 2 or 3 years apart

    Answer by MaybeMommy1994 at 12:22 PM on Dec. 8, 2010