I know I have issues, insecurities, blah blah, but i also know all things are not all my fault. other people make it hard for me to do what I need to. I let them walk all over me. I can't let go. put my foot down and then Im hated.. I want to change for the better. I wanna be like all the women i see and know that can tell a guy to eff off, and move on, or just not give a shit about what anyone has to say about anything I do, friends, family, or men. Im 28, why the hell haven't I done this yet? why do I always make excuses for people. Do I honeslty like being miserable with everything I do?? wow if that is not a pitty me post i dont know what is. lolAnswer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 11:38 AM on Dec. 8, 2010 in Just for Fun
Answer by samurai_chica at 11:40 AM on Dec. 8, 2010
I go through periods where i feel this way too. I'm the same age...maybe it has to do with turning 30 that makes it all seem like a smack in the face. Some days I'm super confident, other days i throw a pity party for myself.
I know what you mean about putting your foot down & being hated for it. So many people just expect me to always be the level headed one, the one who wants to listen to your crap, the one who will always throw you a bone, the "yes" women to, the one who just always goes with the flow & is cool with everybody...
WELL, if i behave any differently....i am all of a sudden an asshole. People like us get walked on, but we somehow have allowed it to happen. I sometimes call myself humble, but other times i wonder if i am really a door mat...
Answer by samurai_chica at 11:46 AM on Dec. 8, 2010
Answer by san78 at 1:30 PM on Dec. 8, 2010
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