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If you had to choose...

Who would you pick to die first?
You or your SO/DH?

Would you rather go through the heartbreak? Or leave them behind?

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SabrinaMBowen

Asked by SabrinaMBowen at 1:02 PM on Dec. 8, 2010 in

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Answers (18)
  • I'd prefer to stay alive longer so I could have more time on Earth with my children.
    Orionsgirl

    Answer by Orionsgirl at 1:03 PM on Dec. 8, 2010

  • I hate to say this but him. We have three small kids and he doesn't do jack. If something were to happen to me he would be screwed.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 1:03 PM on Dec. 8, 2010

  • I'm selfish and want to die first. I know that he would deal with it better than I could. We talk about it frequently.
    twin_mommy

    Answer by twin_mommy at 1:04 PM on Dec. 8, 2010

  • Oh wow.. both would suck.. But I would have to say him.. I wouldn't want to leave my baby girls..♥
    SuperrMommyy

    Answer by SuperrMommyy at 1:04 PM on Dec. 8, 2010

  • I love my husband and he loves our kids, but they are more attached to me. I'd have to let him go first.
    Hazelnutkin

    Answer by Hazelnutkin at 1:05 PM on Dec. 8, 2010

  • ❤¸.•*""*•.¸that's a tough one..my dh is my rock and always has been...but to tell you the truth i don't want to miss out on watching my children grow up and all the memories...i think maybe he would go first if i had to choose...this would be a very hard choice for me.
    gracelessstar21

    Answer by gracelessstar21 at 1:06 PM on Dec. 8, 2010

  • what does SO mean???
    Mamma2E

    Answer by Mamma2E at 1:28 PM on Dec. 8, 2010

  • I would have to say my dh...he loves our babies and he loves me and honestly I don't think he could survive without me. I know that sounds arrogant and I don't mean it to and it is the truth. He depends on me to take care of all the finances, the shopping everything. He does help with the kids a lot, more than I think most men do. He also travels 85% of the good weather months March-November and he does this so that we can afford for me to be a sahm. He is an outstanding man and I love him so very much...I don't think he could handle the heartbreak and my mom died when I was 15 and I feel like I could handle the heartbreak because I have handled it once already. I don't ever want him to feel that pain...I love him too much.
    NaturalMomOfTwo

    Answer by NaturalMomOfTwo at 2:48 PM on Dec. 8, 2010

  • Omg, what a horrible scenario! I don't know! However, for my son's sake, I'm thinking I'd choose for myself to stay alive. Ughh....that's just such a horrible thought!
    LovingSAHMommy

    Answer by LovingSAHMommy at 2:51 PM on Dec. 8, 2010

  • him 1st, life insurance ploicy larger than mine, and i don't think he could handle taking care of the girls
    mememommie

    Answer by mememommie at 3:01 PM on Dec. 8, 2010

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