I hate working, and still having to take care of the kids, do all the house cleaning, shopping, bill paying and everything. I love my husband but he works nights and so everything is on me. He sometimes helps with doing the floors and he takes and picks the kids up from school on occasion. He stays up til about 2-3 in the morning then sleeps until 12-2 in the afternoon. I feel like I am doing it all. I used to be a sahm but we just can't afford it anymore I have to work. I am starting to resent him for this and all he says is well I work nights so what more can I do. I feel like he can do alot and just won't. I also work about 55 hours a week while he works about 45. What would you do?
I never get a minute to myself even while working because I am self employed and have an in home daycare. Right now the kids are napping and thats the only way I can get on here, but I still have to tip toe around my house. I also can't let chores go for the day even if I wanted because of the daycare. I can't get a job outside of the house because I wouldn't make half as much as I make doing this. I would also like to ad that even though I am at home I am not a sahm because I am here 11 hours a day 5 days a week, I may be at home but believe me I'm not at home, I'm working.Answer Question
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