I didn't know I was the other woman. I guess the wife was away visiting family for an extended period of time while he stayed here. We use to date in high school Broke up he found me years later and begged for another chance. Told me he changed. We were friends for like 3 months before I decided to give him another chance. The entire time he told me he was in the middle of a divorce. She was in the picture but he hung out and talk to me so much it seriously looked like they were split. SKIP FAST FORWARD
Last week, I over heard him talking to his wife saying how he missed her and cant wait till she comes home and he loves her. He's own brother told me that they were never separated after I asked him. I called it quits right away and kicked him out of my life. About 2 days after he was gone I found out that he stole boxes of my kids clothes. I was fuming. I told him if I didn't get them I will contact his wife. He didn't believe me and said I was never seeing the clothes again.
Well I contacted her. She isn't one bit mad at me and we are working together. I've giving her all the text messages he sent me and things he left at my place. The problem is she's going through that PH I love him and I don't know how to leave him BS. I'm like the 3rd woman he's cheated on her with.
I need your ladies help to come up with a speech on how to convince her he'll never change. I've been played so many times and finally I want to help someone get out of a relationship where the man doesnt love her and he just cheats non stop
So what can I say to her. I'm planning on sending all of this to her so she can see what other woman would say about this situation.
Asked by Anonymous at 8:46 PM on Dec. 8, 2010 in Relationships
Answer by madsmom314 at 8:55 PM on Dec. 8, 2010
Answer by princessbeth79 at 8:50 PM on Dec. 8, 2010
Answer by rebock at 8:52 PM on Dec. 8, 2010
Answer by older at 8:52 PM on Dec. 8, 2010
Answer by spottedpony at 9:06 PM on Dec. 8, 2010
You can't convince her, she's going to do what ever she wants. Just tell her the truth and let her make an informed decision. Just know that YOU made the right choice.
Answer by skittles1108 at 8:50 PM on Dec. 8, 2010
Answer by vall11 at 9:02 PM on Dec. 8, 2010
Answer by ShouldHaveLeft at 9:08 PM on Dec. 8, 2010
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