Well it has been 8 years since my kids dad has been in their lives. His sister text me and asked me if she could give him my number. I text her back and said no. I asked way did he want it. She said she didn't know. Cause she is not talking to him because he will not take care of the boys. So I told her I will take his number and call him. I did and he told me that the lady from the CS office called him and he is going to have to go to court. I said ok and he told me he will tell me what they said in court. A few weeks later he texts me and said he made a mistake on the paperwork and he will fix when he gets home off the road. Then he says by the way how are the boys and when I get my own place can they come to say with himfor the weekend. I called him but there was no answer and I left a message.
It has been 8 years the last time he saw them they were 2 years old and 1 month old. Are you kidding me everytime your sister gets them and brings them around your family you don't come if you find out they are there. I think he is being really selfish and not thinking of them. He said thing are finally going his way and he can be there for them. That is such BS and thing have not been easy for me. I had them when I was 17 and 19. He was 19 and 21 so what are you talking about. I am going to tell him no you can't just jump in and out of their life. I don't trust him because of the fact that I know his was on drugs and abusive to the mother of his daughter. He is a stranger and eight years is to long to just think you can just jump back in. Am I doing the right thing or being selfish? This is what his other sister told me. Not the one that get them and stuff. Thanks!!!!
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