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Do siblings receive gifts on the birthday child's special day too?

Do siblings receive gifts as well as the birthday child on their special day in your household, or do you purchase gifts only for the birthday child?

 
spottedpony

Asked by spottedpony at 11:30 AM on Dec. 9, 2010 in General Parenting

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  • I think children each need their own special day. When my boys were little I would talk to them about the birthdays. "This is your brothers birthday, let's make it special for him. On your birthday you'll get presents because we'll be celebrating the day you were born!"
    Sometimes it's hard for little ones, but it's an important lesson to learn that they have to let other people have the spotlight sometimes.
    ohwrite

    Answer by ohwrite at 11:34 AM on Dec. 9, 2010

  • only the birthday child. why would siblings get them?
    sue118

    Answer by sue118 at 11:30 AM on Dec. 9, 2010

  • not in our house, if its there birthday, its there special day.
    -LovingMamma-

    Answer by -LovingMamma- at 11:32 AM on Dec. 9, 2010

  • no
    Zoeyis

    Answer by Zoeyis at 11:30 AM on Dec. 9, 2010

  • No to me that doesn't make their day special. But most of my DH's family does.
    addavis06

    Answer by addavis06 at 11:31 AM on Dec. 9, 2010

  • My family sometimes will buy for the siblings.. but I don't. I think only the birthday child should get a gift.
    SuperrMommyy

    Answer by SuperrMommyy at 11:31 AM on Dec. 9, 2010

  • Just the b-day child. I't won't be as special to them if everyone else is getting attention and gifts also. It's their day, let them enjoy it.
    arenad

    Answer by arenad at 11:32 AM on Dec. 9, 2010

  • No and everyone knows that we will not allow the non birthday child to receive a gift.
    purpleducky

    Answer by purpleducky at 11:33 AM on Dec. 9, 2010

  • no.
    tata569

    Answer by tata569 at 11:33 AM on Dec. 9, 2010

  • I would just do the birthday child. The other kids would get cake and ice cream ya know?

    I only have one child, but that's how I would do it. They each would have their own special day, so why do the others need to get something too?
    thatgirl70

    Answer by thatgirl70 at 11:36 AM on Dec. 9, 2010

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