We have been together for 15 months. Started out it was jus supposed to be "friends with benefits". Somewhere along the line we both started catching feelings. A day didnt go by that we didnt talk. if i didnt txt or call him by a certain time in the morning, he was callin or textin me to make sure everything was ok. one day about 3 weeks ago, a really good friend of mine told me that he has been texting and calling her for about 2 weeks, all day and at all hours, trying to have sex with her. she claims that she told him taht she couldnt do sumthing like that to me, and that when she told him that she knows how much i love him, and that they both know that i would do anything for him. and he told her that its too much for him and that is was just supposed to b a sex thing, and that my feelings are tooo much for him to deal with. when i confronted him about it, he said that she was lying, and that he has feelings for me, and that he wants to be with me just as much as i do wanna be with him. He says that everything is cool. Since i confronted him about this, he has stopped texting and calling her (i think) but he has also stopped texting and calling me. And when i ask whats going on? he says im sorry baby, i was really busy at work today. He says that with the holidays coming up, he is just really stressed, and that everything will be ok, and bac to normal soon. in the past week i have only really seen him and talked to him once. and that wasnt for very long, and i think it was really only cuz he wanted me to go to the store and get a few things for him the next day while on my lunch break. i got what he wanted, and sent him a text to let him know, that i got everything, and i didnt hear from him, so i texted again, and he said he was busy, he would talk to me later.and i didnt get a thank you or anything, until later that evening. So far today i havent heard anything from him. im trying not to text or call him, cuz i jus wanna see if he will call or text me first. I really love him and dont wanna leave him, but at this point is it really worth me holding on to? i dont know what i should do and it is making everyone around me including my kid miserable.
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