As of right now...since I don't have children (we're kinda working on it)...I would take the entire year (probably) off of work and go on as many trips with DH, family, and friends as possible. Go everywhere I want to go...All over Europe, Vegas with my girlfriends, etc...and maybe, if DH could handle it afterwards hope/pray to be able to conceive and give birth beforehand, but if he didn't think he could handle it without me and it would be harder on him and therefore harder on our child, then I would do whatever possible to not let it happen.
If I found this out in couple years...then basically the same as above only our children would be included!
Obviously this would be very expensive, but I'd figure out a way to do all that and nor burden my DH with the bills, credit cards, etc of it all afterwards...
at 10:07 PM on Dec. 9, 2010