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What's wrong with my ex?

When we were dating when we broke up he'd always want me back when I found someone else. When I moved out of state (4 times) he moved to the same state a couple of weeks later. When I wouldn't leave my dh for him he tried to get my dh to leave me. Now he's back again. So frustrating. He's like a reoccurring bad dream. He never really goes away.

 
bseastrand

Asked by bseastrand at 10:37 PM on Dec. 9, 2010 in Relationships

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Answers (11)
  • He has stalker tendencies. Be careful!
    Simplicity3

    Answer by Simplicity3 at 11:14 PM on Dec. 9, 2010

  • Restraining Order !
    2lilbumblebees

    Answer by 2lilbumblebees at 10:37 PM on Dec. 9, 2010

  • obsessed
    admckenzie

    Answer by admckenzie at 10:38 PM on Dec. 9, 2010

  • I can't get a restraining order. He doesn't bother me directly anymore he just makes his presence very well known.
    bseastrand

    Comment by bseastrand (original poster) at 10:39 PM on Dec. 9, 2010

  • I'd say document everything and file for a restraining order. This sounds too much like stalking to me.
    specialwingz

    Answer by specialwingz at 10:39 PM on Dec. 9, 2010

  • I had the same problem. He's obsessed and jealous.
    csummers0826

    Answer by csummers0826 at 10:41 PM on Dec. 9, 2010

  • you can still get a restaining order for that...

    you can even get them for people IN CASE they bother you
    2lilbumblebees

    Answer by 2lilbumblebees at 10:44 PM on Dec. 9, 2010

  • Yup, go get a restraining order. He is being creepy stalking you like that and is showing jealous/possessive behavior.
    Gnomeofmyheart

    Answer by Gnomeofmyheart at 10:47 PM on Dec. 9, 2010

  • Get help and advice from the police and do not talk to him again. Keep him far away, get a restraining order.
    gammie

    Answer by gammie at 10:52 PM on Dec. 9, 2010

  • Something else that comes to mind - how does he know where you've moved to? Don't tell him when/where you move. And have your phone # unlisted and non-published. They are 2 different things. Unlisted keeps you private when people call information. Non-published keeps you out of the city's Cole's Book, which is a big city publication of it's residents. You can find them at any public library.
    specialwingz

    Answer by specialwingz at 11:00 PM on Dec. 9, 2010