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Is It wrong if a Muslim boy dates a Christian girl? or vise versa.

So let's say there are these two people and they have been dating for a while but one of them has different beliefs than the other but they fall in love....Is it wrong? or is it worth a shot

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vall11

Asked by vall11 at 12:02 AM on Dec. 10, 2010 in Relationships

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  • No it's not wrong. Why would it be?
    m-avi

    Answer by m-avi at 12:03 AM on Dec. 10, 2010

  • muslim boy w/ a christian girl :it s ok if she has the well the convert to islam. and im not talking abt dating and missing arround im talking abt marriage b/ce in the first place there is no dating in islam.
    for a muslim girl w/ a christian boy: ill think it s not permitted unless the boy converts to islam then its ok.
    why r u asking this question r u muslim?
    Imane1215

    Answer by Imane1215 at 12:07 AM on Dec. 10, 2010

  • Some Muslim people strongly hate on their son/daughter marrying someone outside their religion and sometimes they end up trying to kill them...people from that religion find it very wrong....but people over here find nothing wrong about it.....why?
    vall11

    Comment by vall11 (original poster) at 12:10 AM on Dec. 10, 2010

  • I think what you are failing to realize is that someone can be "Muslim" without actually being a practicing Muslim. Someone can be a "Christian" without practicing. So, yes, they can date... Yes, I know from experience.... Thanks.
    m-avi

    Answer by m-avi at 12:11 AM on Dec. 10, 2010

  • I would say if they love each other then let them make their own decisions.
    tryin2BGOOD

    Answer by tryin2BGOOD at 12:12 AM on Dec. 10, 2010

  • And some countries are much more liberal than others...
    m-avi

    Answer by m-avi at 12:12 AM on Dec. 10, 2010

  • well im not saying its wrong but i think it would cause problems in the future if the relationship got serious , i mean i dont think its really a good thing bc theres always going to be a religious despute and then think about the kids , one parent is telling them to be christian and the other muslim confusing. I guess it depends on if they are practicing theyre faith and they take it seriously or if they just say they are but dont really follow the faith/religion .bc to me a devoted faith ful christian or a devoted faithful muslim would want sum 1 to sahre theyre faith with. but whose to say maybe it will work. just depends. on alot of things.
    bekkaboo89

    Answer by bekkaboo89 at 12:12 AM on Dec. 10, 2010

  • no i'm not but my friends boyfriend is and she says that all his chick friends talk bad about him because she is not like them and that if his parents found out they will never talk to him again....i personally believe that if its love its love and that the difference shouldn't matter at all....
    vall11

    Comment by vall11 (original poster) at 12:18 AM on Dec. 10, 2010

  • love rules. they love eachother then they will b happy togather cuz it is love that makes them one and the same.
    nadin8

    Answer by nadin8 at 12:22 AM on Dec. 10, 2010

  • the thing is that it is just hard, i know people who they are muslim, they got marreid to Christian but they have to work hard on thier marrieg
    lelly24

    Answer by lelly24 at 12:22 AM on Dec. 10, 2010

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