We've been married 3 months now.. but lived together before & we have a child together... we alsoeach have a child from previous so we have three kids!... we spent his christmas bonus on their christmas.. and christmas didnt put us in the hole ANY. He is a police officer so he is always working overtime and making different amounts on checks.. its never the same.. He's always paid bills and spent money how he's wanted to his whole life(hes 28, im 23) im a stay at home mom... & am starting to notice how much he blows money.. he always is wanting to go out to eat... he's always buying the most random crap for work.. he has more work belts and gun holsters than you can EVEN imagine.. hes always at pawn shops.. i mean its starting to get really annoying.. we JUST got a shared bank account because it took so long to get our marriage license & my SSC.. but i just found this paper from his previous bank account we havent cancelled yet until we get everything settled..
its called skip a loan payment for dec or jan for thsoe who need extra christmas money(ok cool, but this DOES NOT APPLY TO US WE DO NOT NEED ANY MORE CHRISTMAS MONEY OR EXTRA MONEY FOR ANYTHING) but he has it checked that he is going to skip Jans payment of 300 dollars for his car loan.. JSUT BECAUSE.. it costs 30 dollars JUST to skip a payment.. and that payment is just adding another month onto your loan.. so your paying 30 dollars just to pay 300 dollars LATER instead of NOW.. His reason of doing it is to have 300 dollars more the month of January.. WHAT THE HECK FOR? WE DO NOT NEED AN EXTRA 300!!! Im so frustrated.. he said hes always done it so hes doing it and im about to get PISSED and put my foot down. he is making IMMATURE DUMB decisions for our family!.. do i let it go since its small.. or seriously put my foot down?
Asked by Anonymous at 5:42 PM on Dec. 10, 2010 in Relationships
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