I am a mother of one beautiful girl. I was fixxed at the young age of 20. My mother pushed me into it. Now i am concidering having my tubal reversed. I believe I have hit the age of wanting another child. Right now i am afraid of not only my mother and family. but also the idea that if i were to get pregnant that the child would have CGD chronic gralulumatosis disease . it runns in my family and life exspectancy back when my uncle was alive was 7 yo now a child with CGD is exspected to live into their 30 and 40. I want another child but i do not know what other option there is for me I want the joy of carrying the child not someone else no offense to other surrogets out their, or mother who could not carry. Does anyone have any advise for me?Answer Question
Answer by brooklynohlordy at 5:55 PM on Dec. 10, 2010
Answer by Mom2Just1 at 6:40 PM on Dec. 10, 2010
Answer by pbilotti at 3:22 PM on Dec. 11, 2010
Answer by MommyTanisha at 7:08 PM on Dec. 11, 2010
Its really a choice you have to make yourself but I wouldn't want to bring a child into this world knowing it would most likely be that sick or a daughter who would have to make this decision just so I could experience the joy of having a child.
Answer by MommyTanisha at 8:16 PM on Dec. 12, 2010
well, i personally hate being pregnant so i guess i can't really identify with your struggle lol. i would simply adopt. i think the stress of worrying about the child would take away any joy you might feel from the pregnancy anyway. and what if it is a boy? they are not going to have a good life. i would just adopt so you are completing your family and giving a loving home to a child that doesn't have one. it's a win win in my opinion.
Answer by princessbeth79 at 8:22 PM on Dec. 12, 2010
Answer by Arkaidy at 9:00 PM on Dec. 12, 2010