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should i speak to him

i've just recieved an email from my ex bf who i havent even spoken to in like 6years, we broke up cos he cheated on me and got all these girls prego, now im married n ver happy at that but its just so out of the blue should i talk to him n see what he wants or not bother to reply i dont care for him like that anymore its just a real big shock to get something from him after all these years

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angelbaby1323

Asked by angelbaby1323 at 8:46 PM on Dec. 10, 2010 in Relationships

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  • Do not bother with him not even a little. Especially since you are married and don't have any feelings for him.
    ShouldHaveLeft

    Answer by ShouldHaveLeft at 8:47 PM on Dec. 10, 2010

  • If your happy with your husband, why would you even want to say 'HI' to this fool?
    Block him, and go on your way with your DH.

    If not..you could bring back old feelings. Your just opening a can of "worms."
    khf22

    Answer by khf22 at 8:48 PM on Dec. 10, 2010

  • don't reply leave the past in the past
    mommy_of_two388

    Answer by mommy_of_two388 at 8:48 PM on Dec. 10, 2010

  • he cheated on you, and got other girls pregnant... now youre married and happy.. it should be a shock he is trying to pry back in your life.. he prolly emailed all his x's one after another. id ignore the hell of out him, what a waste!
    mohme2three

    Answer by mohme2three at 8:50 PM on Dec. 10, 2010

  • shouldnt be a shock**
    mohme2three

    Answer by mohme2three at 8:50 PM on Dec. 10, 2010

  • yup, agree with all the others. Just leave this guy alone and focus on your wonderful hubby!
    an-apple-a-day

    Answer by an-apple-a-day at 8:51 PM on Dec. 10, 2010

  • I would ignore him
    ready4baby2011

    Answer by ready4baby2011 at 8:54 PM on Dec. 10, 2010

  • the message has been deleted n i just ignored it like everyone said too thanks everyone
    angelbaby1323

    Comment by angelbaby1323 (original poster) at 8:58 PM on Dec. 10, 2010

  • Good job!!! Good luck with your DH :)
    khf22

    Answer by khf22 at 9:05 PM on Dec. 10, 2010

  • Great for you for having the sense to just let it go. GL with your happy marriage
    My_3_Babies

    Answer by My_3_Babies at 9:12 PM on Dec. 10, 2010

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