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How long should you be with your SO before you marry?


Asked by shanapiv at 11:34 PM on Dec. 10, 2010 in Relationships

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  • I think it all depends on the couple. I'd say to give it some time, at least a few years, in my opinion.

    Answer by LovingSAHMommy at 11:37 PM on Dec. 10, 2010

  • we were together 6 months when we got married and have been married now going on 3 years.

    Answer by ready4baby2011 at 11:41 PM on Dec. 10, 2010

  • long enough to really know each other...dh and i were together 4 years before we got married

    Answer by josiesmommy00 at 11:35 PM on Dec. 10, 2010

  • We knew we wanted to be married and have kids the second we met. We were only together 6 months before. We are very happy and well suited for each other. Sure, we bicker. That's normal.

    My sister says there is a 2 year cut off. If you are in a relationship for 2 years and it doesn't have marriage on the horizon, you are wasting your time.

    Answer by ecodani at 1:09 AM on Dec. 11, 2010

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