I'm never going to be good enough for my husband. He just threw in my face blaming me for everything that has gone wrong in my life and our marriage. We were about to divorce when he begged for one more chance. The entire time I kept saying it was OUR fault the marriage went the way it did but he kept saying was he's fault and no matter what I said he kept taking the blame. Now he sayings that I blamed him all the time and I cant take ownership. Pretty much called me a bad mother. Said if I was like his mom more it would be this way. Saying it was my fault I was beat and raped, it was my fault my family was the way they were growing up.
Everything was my fault... I don't see the point in trying anymore... I have no one no family no friends. He has made me look like the bad guy for so long when really I've been trying to make things work. Maybe he's right maybe everything is my fault and I don't deserve to be a mother. I guess when he gets home from his business trip I'll just leave and disappear off the face of the earth. Make him happy and my kids will be better off.
Asked by Anonymous at 11:42 AM on Dec. 11, 2010 in Relationships
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