My mother favors my brothers child over mine. She is always giving my niece things in front of my children. For Christmas this years she was showing me things she go the grandkids. I really wasn't expecting much, honestly. She got my kids each an outfit and 2 toys. Which in my eyes is good enough. But then she showed all the things she go my niece. She had like 15 different things and most them aren't cheap. She even bought a shit load of things for my nieces step sister. My niece has 2 families and she is very spoiled. I feel as if my children are chopped lever to my mother. She always has my niece over she even has her own bed and a box of her own toys. She has nothing for my kids. She rarely watches my kids too. I feel so bad for my kids becasue this is how it is with my MIL too. She favors my stepson over my kids. He as well has his own bed at her place and his own toys. My daughter was born and was around for a full year before we knew about my stepson. (he's older but mm never said anything til he was 18 months old) I almost feel like my kids don't matter to either grandma. They clearly favor one child over the other and they don't hide their feelings about it. They do it in front my my kids. My daughter is about the same age as my niece and stepson and she looks sad when grandma sits there and gives gifts to them and not her. (niece is 5, stepson is 4, daughter is 3 son is 17 months) I have to bring my kids own toys to either grandmas becasue they refuse to let my kids play with the other kids stuff because they don't want them broken or lost. At my mothers house my kids have to sleep on the floor because she wont let them sleep on my nieces bed and my MIL has never had my kids over night. She doesnt want them over becasue she claims to have no room but my step son has stayed over dozens of times.
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