When trying to get DH to stop BM's insults he just brushes me off. He refuses to do anything to stop her from violating court papers (which state that no one is to talk badly about anyone). He even didn't want to take her to court when she took visitation away from him. I had to push him to do something, and that something was tell her that he would think about helping her get pregnant. This woman has been trying to have my husband have sex with her for her to get pregnant again ever since she found out I was having a baby myself and that would be the third child that belonged to him while she only has two of his kids.
How in the world am I supposed to believe that he loves me when he refuses to stand up to her? It feels like all he wants me for is sex because he won't do anything that I ask but bend over backwards for his ex-wife.
And yes, she is remarried as well, she just doesn't want to be with her husband and is only with him becuase he reminds her of mine (she married my husband's twin, I swear this man could have been seperated from my husband at birth they look so similar).
How can I get him to understand what this is doing to me? I'm so stressed out that I don't know what to do, and I know this is affecting our kids becuse recently they have told me that they don't have to listen to me becuase "daddy don't care". HELP! What can I do?
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