My SO and I live together with our two and a half year old. He's a teacher whose simultaneously doing the credential program- which basically means he has 12hr days M-F and works a lot on the weekend too, even when he's at home. It's real tough, I constantly feel like I don't get enough, if any, attention- and we've talked about it but there's no real solution...his job is his life, then comes our daughter, then by the time there is time for me he's usually exhausted, tired, etc. So yea- what sucks is even though I go to college and work, I still have more free time compared to him and don't know how to not care about this attn issue. The difference is I can have an insanely busy week, and be exhausted, but when I have real free time- I'd want to spend it with him, and he usually rather sleep!
Blah, guess this is more of a vent than question, but my question I guess is what do you do when/if you're not getting attention? Or what do you do when you have conflicting schedules and maybe don't get to hang out much? How do you stay busy and keep your mind off it at the same time?? Any advice is much appreciated, thx.
Asked by Anonymous at 8:04 PM on Dec. 11, 2010 in Relationships
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