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why do men cheat and lie i just dont understand it?

why cant love be like the ones in fairytale books? do you believe love is real or just a feeling.. im starting to feel kinda differently about things between my dh and me ... its starting to get boring and sooooooooooooo bland ... i feel like an old couple weve had a rocky marriage and weve only been married for 5 years :( i just im just depressed?


Asked by Luckyme3487 at 1:28 AM on Dec. 12, 2010 in Relationships

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Answers (8)
  • Most men don't add any emotions to sex. They do it because it is just sex. Most women need to feel something for a sexpartner to do the deed. Sad but true.

    Answer by Dezitwins at 1:36 AM on Dec. 12, 2010

  • LOL! I still stand behind it's not so much all men these days, but it's what is thrown in front of them via our media. They think that cheating is the norm. They think all men should be into boobs, butts, etc. Believe it or not, there are good men out there that don't fall into that category, but you might not think they are much fun either. This is why I do find men from other countries so interesting... they don't think of women as the sex objects that OUR media portrays them as. In actuality girl, it's our own faults for falling into those beliefs ourselves. Sad, isn't it??!

    Answer by m-avi at 1:34 AM on Dec. 12, 2010

  • I am sorry that you are going thru this but women lie and cheat just as often as men do.

    Answer by bcauseimthemom at 2:24 AM on Dec. 12, 2010

  • :(

    Comment by Luckyme3487 (original poster) at 1:40 AM on Dec. 12, 2010

  • shrugging


    Answer by sexyfancyface at 6:06 AM on Dec. 12, 2010

  • You're 50% of the marriage. You talk about lying and cheating in the title, but only say your marriage is boring in your post. Which is it? Women lie and cheat just as much as men. But if you're relationship is just boring, think about all the things you used to do and don't...then start doing them again.

    Also, marriage isn't 50/50. Its 60/40. You can never contribute equally to the relationship- that's a fairytale. Sometimes your SO will need to lean on you and you have to pick up some slack. The understanding is that he'll be there when you can't give as much and need him.

    Answer by mrs_pulley at 9:34 AM on Dec. 12, 2010

  • Because most men are selfish pigs

    Answer by mommy_of_two388 at 1:11 PM on Dec. 12, 2010

  • Women cheat also and can be just as bad if not worse then men are.

    Answer by LiLJeni at 10:31 PM on Dec. 12, 2010