i was raped twice. once at 14 and again at 16(not by the same guy) and i have a 1yr old as the result of my 2nd rape. where i live, its not uncommon to get pregnant young, not b married or in a relationship, and have no baby daddy around but its looked down on big time. especially since i was the one who wasnt doing all thosre things and the adults liked me, i was respectful. now that i have a son, adults dont want my help they think im in "the devils work" and thats how i make money to support my child. i get its a sin thrown at me a lot. i just walk away but even my dad wont speak to me and he knows that i was raped which is how i got pregnant. my mom and a few friends are the only supportitive people i have. i would move but i dont have enough money for that. when i got pregnant, i was the talk of the town. everyone stared and whispered things behind my back. what are you opinons and their thoughts and views? how do you see it? and any advice how to handle this?
Asked by Anonymous at 8:35 AM on Dec. 12, 2010 in Relationships
Answer by Raine2001 at 1:30 PM on Dec. 12, 2010
Answer by SWasson at 8:48 AM on Dec. 12, 2010
Did you throw the guy in jail who raped you or did you keep it hush hush? And, where do you live? By the sounds of it, it seems like you live in one of those creepy Christian communes. But, that is just me being judgemental & I'm sorry.
My opinions? I think they are all a bunch of assholes & if i were you it would be my life mission to move far-far away from a town like that.
Answer by samurai_chica at 8:48 AM on Dec. 12, 2010
Answer by Anonymous at 9:14 AM on Dec. 12, 2010
Answer by Kellyjude1 at 8:56 AM on Dec. 12, 2010
Answer by angelmine2011 at 9:12 AM on Dec. 12, 2010
My heart goes out 2 u during the trials & tribulations that u had 2 endure. First, i'm glad that u went on ahead & gave birth 2 your precious child. And second of all, try 2 hold your head up high & try not 2 allow the negative things that people say about u to get u down & make u feel bad about urself. Rest & depend on God, honey! He'll DEFINITLY make a way for u & your child. Just pray 2 Him & things will start changing for the better.
Answer by NubianQueen78 at 9:48 AM on Dec. 12, 2010
Answer by samurai_chica at 8:51 AM on Dec. 12, 2010
Answer by Die4Jesus at 9:15 AM on Dec. 12, 2010
Answer by pinkdragon36 at 9:58 AM on Dec. 12, 2010