I'm definitely one!! Always trying to make everyone happy and doing what I can for people. Sometimes I ended up getting screwed in the end.
There's only one person I'm refusing to please anymore - my BIL. After years of him threatening me when I don't do what he wants and him backing me up into walls & telling me how much he's going to punch me and hurt me, I REFUSE to do anything for him. Won't even look at him. Last incident being the week before Thanksgiving. I was making dinner, he wanted the car keys to move DH's car (he lives upstairs with MIL) I said hold on because my hands were dirty and the keys where in my purse and I didn't want him in there. So he got pissed and did all that crap.
So now I say SCREW HIM!!!
But as far as everyone else - yup still trying to please everyone. But I do need to stop because sometimes everyone is happy except for me because I do everything they want not what I want.
at 1:00 PM on Dec. 12, 2010