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I was wondering if I was the only one this happened too.
Here it goes...
So When I fisrt got married we had sex like 10 times a day.
we had our daughter...Iwent a whole year without sex...
Then I hit this satge where that all I wanted agin.
And now Im to the point where i cry out of angery sadness and disgust if I even think about sex.
I love my hubby he is soooo hot...but I cant have sex and I have no desier to.
DID THIS HAPPEN TO YOU?
AM I ASEXUAL?

 
lacyjay1987

Asked by lacyjay1987 at 1:45 PM on Dec. 12, 2010 in Relationships

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Answers (9)
  • Have you had sexual abuse in your past? I know women who experience what you described and they were sexually abused as a child and that has caused them to react that way. Just wondering. If so counseling would be good for you.
    bjane01

    Answer by bjane01 at 2:09 PM on Dec. 12, 2010

  • I don't know, but I will tell you this. I'm going through a divorce. Six months ago, I wanted nothing to do with sex...now I want it all. the. time!!! I want it bc I can't have it!
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 2:38 PM on Dec. 12, 2010

  • I doubt you're a-sexual. You may have hormone imbalances. Talk to your gyno about this next time you see her. I did lose all interest in sex for about 5 years after i gave birth, but it's now coming back like CRAZY.

    Did you start on any new birth control within the last 6 months to a year?
    samurai_chica

    Answer by samurai_chica at 1:49 PM on Dec. 12, 2010

  • It has never happened to me but it sounds like your hormones are out of wack!
    older

    Answer by older at 1:51 PM on Dec. 12, 2010

  • don't worry, it's normal. sometimes there migh be some underlying reason that you're not even aware of. i'd mention it to your gyno/doctor. some people just don't want it as much- even if they used to. my SO is never really in the mood and it's b/c he's almost always thinking about work (very hard/hectic job), but i'm the one who always wants it lol (but we don't do it often).
    lexi8622

    Answer by lexi8622 at 2:09 PM on Dec. 12, 2010

  • I go through those phases or have over the years and it's been hormonal. Just talk to your doctor and get it fixed
    admckenzie

    Answer by admckenzie at 2:35 PM on Dec. 12, 2010

  • @ bjane01.... yes i have a few times in my life the most recent being in 2007 at a newyears party
    lacyjay1987

    Comment by lacyjay1987 (original poster) at 2:41 PM on Dec. 12, 2010

  • I say counseling and some sort of meds for the hormonal imbalance. GL momma
    EttaMay

    Answer by EttaMay at 3:21 PM on Dec. 12, 2010

  • Thankyou
    lacyjay1987

    Comment by lacyjay1987 (original poster) at 3:59 PM on Dec. 12, 2010

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