well, I'd been telling my husband that I wanted to go to Las vegas for my 40th for a couple of years now, he never seemed to really want to talk about it since it was always so far away.
as luck would have it, I was born about 10 days after christmas, so this is the story of my life.
not much really happens on my birthday, since it's right when everything is winding down.
so now that it's now or never, I just brought it up, and I get this reaction from my husband
"I don't want to go"
"too much money"
then it's pretty much ended with
"if you want to go, we'll go but I've made my feeling clear on what I want."
well, since it's my birthday, at this moment I'm not really that concerned about what he wants.
I would love for us to go and have a great time as we usually do in Las vegas (or so he's said the last few times we went), now suddenly he didn't have a good time- but that's what he usually says after the fact on any vacation we've had.
I figure if we go, then once we get there he'll probably have fun. If not, then I think I may just follow my own advice that I would give to someone else.
Take him up on it, make the plans and if he's acting like a downer on the trip, then just have some fun without him.
I'm thinking of just going alone, or asking a friend at this point-
BTW- I'm not talking about a luxury suite, I'm talking about a inexpensive room for a few days with cheap buffets.
Could use suggestions!
Answer by kimmy77 at 9:53 AM on Dec. 13, 2010
Answer by isabellem at 4:57 PM on Dec. 12, 2010
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Answer by MotherAndMore at 10:31 PM on Dec. 12, 2010