DH has really bad anxiety and CANNOT STAND if DD whines or cries in any way...
Since she's been born he's busted his ASS working for us - 12-14 hour days, 6-7 days a week so I've pretty much been a single mom and I hate to say it but he's pretty much only been the paycheck. Don't get me wrong... I'm thankful I don't have a shit-bum hubby who just sits on the couch all day, but any and ALL care - night AND day has been up to me these whole 2 1/2 years. I don't mind, it's my JOB - he works so much to provide us a great home & pay the bills, nd I do the child-rearing/housewife stuff. BUT WHEN IT COMES TO DISCEPLINE, AT LEAST BE ON THE SAME PAGE AS ME AND BACK ME UP!!!!
We just got back from the restaurant and lately I've been really having a hard time trying to get DD to eat something "good" - she has suddenly stopped eating all the stuff she loves and constantly asks for candy or Doritos. I tell her she CANNOT have those treats until she eats her GOOD food that I prepared for her. Some days she goes almost all day without eating. Today is one of those days.
On the way out of the restaurant as DH was paying the bill, they had a giant bowl of Blow Pops for 25 cents and before I could blink DH had bought DD one. No biggie. She asked DH to open it for her as he was buckling her in the carseat, and we both said "No, you didn't eat any of the food you ordered, you must eat your food THEN you can have the Blow Pop. Then she started to whine the slightest bit so DH CAVED IMMEDIATELY and said - - LITERALLY SAID "Ok, Mommy says no, Daddy says yes, but you HAVE to eat your food when you get home." I just CANNOT believe the blatent disrespect he showed me, and showed his daughter how he treated me. I'm FUMING right now. Then we get home and I was just going to go take a bath & let HIM deal with her since he never gets a chance to, see how HE does trying to get her to eat... he came in, took her coat off, and turned right around and now is out in the garage piddling around with his truck. I oughta rip his teeth out. UGGGHHHH!!!!!!!
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