My husband is selfish and a jerk... everyday is a battle to not turn abusive and just start beating him ( I am about to cross that line ) .... He makes a problem out of everything, complains about everyting, and wont do anything !
we both work and even though i do work at home ( in home daycare) ... he assumes his sit down office job ( that he loves) is harder... even though I work alot longer and literally have to do alot more things... I dont like my job and i think it adds to the stress of doing it ( not to mention that the parents of the kids I babysit for are constantly sending their sick kids, dropping them of early and picking them up late) ... I have to because he once had a great job but lied to his boss - got fired and now has a low paying job..........the day he got fired he told me to go out and get a job, but expected to not have to watch the kids or do any house work...........
So I have to work, do EVERYTHING for the kids and do everything in the house - except his laundry because he complained I didnt do it right so I told him to do his own.... so he washes a load of his own clothes once a week... and because of that he thinks he has a right to complain that I never do anything... ( he says this as he is playing a video game or on the net ) ...
BUT tonight just pissed me off to no end...
Our 4 year old daughter was in her first play tonight ( christmas play) ... I was so excited ... I was up since 6am getting ready, taking her to practice then me and the kids to church, then to a church luncheon.. I came home for us to change and he starts arguing that we arent going because he doesnt want to come home late since he has to work early in the morning( this is one of his big excises for everything..... even though he doesnt leave for work until after 7...and after we did get home he stayed up and played video games until after 11 ) ....but it made em so mad that he literally wanted to miss his daughter in a play - this was something big for her ( and me )
.... I wish he didnt even go because he spent the whole time snapping at me and LOUDLY talking down to me in front of all of those people... and then snatched the camera out of my hand because he said he can do it better.... and well now I dont even have any photos of her in her play....
divorce or marriage counsiling isnt an option at all right now ( no money, no time, and he just plain will not ) ....I dont know what to do
Asked by Anonymous at 11:32 PM on Dec. 12, 2010 in Relationships
Answer by tootoobusy at 11:41 PM on Dec. 12, 2010
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Answer by SpiritedWitch at 12:14 AM on Dec. 13, 2010
Answer by amessageofhope at 12:52 AM on Dec. 13, 2010
Pray to God to help you out. Good luck!
Answer by bratgirln1 at 12:54 AM on Dec. 13, 2010
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Answer by fairygurl91787 at 3:02 AM on Dec. 13, 2010
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