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HOW CAN I GET SOMEONE TO TALK TO MY HUSBAND?HE IS ALWAYS SAYING MEAN THINGS TO ME AND CHEATING ON ME?I JUST NEED SOMEONE TO TALK TO HIM AND LET HIM KNOW WHAT A HUSBANDS ROLE IS AND HOW TO RESPECT HIS WIFE?

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PASEKA

Asked by PASEKA at 5:30 AM on Dec. 13, 2010 in Relationships

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  • It's up to your husband to want to change no amount of talking is going to help unless he wants it to happen. He and you need to see a counselor. I'm sorry for want you are going through but find a counselor to talk to, it will help you deal with the situation and figure out what you need to do.

    RyansMom001

    Answer by RyansMom001 at 5:43 AM on Dec. 13, 2010

  • maybe telling him what his "role" is is something he doesn't wanna hear. As an adult, we can't tell other adults what to do. But if he's refusing to get help, then there's not much you can do.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 5:53 AM on Dec. 13, 2010

  • Girl, no one can talk to your husband. He knows his role already. He is just choosing a different path. You have a heart to heart with. Let him know your feelings, and what you expect of him if you forgive him, or move on. No one deserves to be treated like that.

    Christine0813

    Answer by Christine0813 at 6:18 AM on Dec. 13, 2010

  • Why did you marry him?
    gulfcoastmom4

    Answer by gulfcoastmom4 at 6:28 AM on Dec. 13, 2010

  • If you go to church your preacher can talk to him. But that's the only thing he can do the rest is up to your husband.,
    mamaofficer

    Answer by mamaofficer at 6:33 AM on Dec. 13, 2010

  • He may never change; why do you u put up with it? Maybe you need to send him a message by kicking his butt out the door?
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 6:52 AM on Dec. 13, 2010

  • He has to want to change or someone speaking to him is just a waste of time. Kick his butt to the road. IMO.
    arenad

    Answer by arenad at 8:00 AM on Dec. 13, 2010

  • Have you tried talking to him? If you have told him what he did hurts you and he still does it then he really doesn't care. I'd seek a counselor and if he refuses then he doesn't want to change. You can't make someone change. I'm sorry.
    SillyFaerie

    Answer by SillyFaerie at 9:29 AM on Dec. 13, 2010

  • Have a friend or family member talk to him. But don't expect him to change.
    HotMama330

    Answer by HotMama330 at 11:56 AM on Dec. 13, 2010

  • His father? Minister?
    mmmegan38

    Answer by mmmegan38 at 12:31 PM on Dec. 13, 2010

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