I have been with this man for 3 years... we got engaged and shortly after I became pregnant with our little girl ... I decided that I wanted to wait until after I had the baby before we got married ( the date we had saved, I would have been 8 months pregnant..and all of our decorations were autumn themed so we couldnt do it earlier).....
Well things were fine with us, nothing out of the normal... until I hit the 9 month mark, he started acting funny and I assumed he was nervous about being a daddy for the first time,, but now I know the truth ....
2 weeks after I had our baby he said he needed a break.... a week later he got MARRIED to someone else ! ( a girl he dated in high school ) ....... This all just happened and i dont know how to handle it... we just bought a house in a city that I know no one in ... I only have a prt time job ( which I dont go back to for 2 more weeks) and I could never afford the payment.... and I just had a beautiful baby, my first I am still trying to learn how to take care of her and it is so hard when my heart is broken !
Asked by Anonymous at 9:09 AM on Dec. 13, 2010 in Relationships
Answer by tootoobusy at 9:14 AM on Dec. 13, 2010
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Answer by keisha613 at 9:21 AM on Dec. 13, 2010
All I can say is...I am so sorry. It is better for you to find out that he is untrustworthy now, instead of later after the baby gets to know him and you are married. How horrible for you.
Answer by Mamas2babies at 9:31 AM on Dec. 13, 2010
Wow I would turn to family and friends go back to your home town with the baby. Live with family or a friend until you can get on your own two feet. Men are such dogs sometimes! I am so sorry that you are in this situation!
Answer by Darla47 at 9:34 AM on Dec. 13, 2010
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