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hmm.. what would you have done?

One of my best friends from high school ( we havent actually seen each other in like 8 years) is on my facebook friends list.. we are both married and have 2 kids each ...

The other day her husband added me on there and i accepted, not thinking anything of it... my husband also has a FB and has alot of my friends on his list as well.... I have never met him but I assumed it would be rude to decline the friend request of my friends husband , and I just assumed he was adding some of her friends or something....

we never talked, all I did was post a " Thanks for the add" on his wall and he replied " your welcome" ....that was it

The next day she sent me a message asking " why in the hell is {her} husband on {my} list " and if we have been talking , what we have been talking about, etc....

I told her that he just added and i didnt think anything of it and the only thing we "said" was the one wall post...

I mean I guess maybe they are having problems or something, but to really go off he handle on something like that is silly right ?

I always hear of people talking about facebook drama and I guess this is what they mean lol - this is the first time I have ever gotten a not-friendly comment lol

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Asked by Anonymous at 11:03 AM on Dec. 13, 2010 in Just for Fun

Answers (3)
  • ¸.•*"i think you did right you told her the truth you didn't want to be rude and not accept i think i would of done the exact same thing...sounds like she is a little insecure about her husband being your of luck to you hope everything works out with you and your friend¸.•*"

    Answer by gracelessstar21 at 11:06 AM on Dec. 13, 2010

  • Wow! You didn't do anything wrong - this woman sounds like a "bunny boiler"

    Answer by Scuba at 11:08 AM on Dec. 13, 2010

  • i think your guess of them having problems is correct
    maybe he is controlling andhas to be friends with all of her friends to keep an eye on her
    you handled fine
    it is a wait and see basis now

    Answer by fiatpax at 11:08 AM on Dec. 13, 2010

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