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Would you ever date a MM.......IF?

If you knew for sure that.........

They still live together, of course...
He and his wife have not had sex with one another in 4 years...
He does not love her anymore.....
She does not love him anymore......
They are with each other for financial reasons....
And.....They are like roommates now????

If no?......Why not?

*I know i will get quite a few responses...So, please no bashing..This is for my friend, to make her see all the reasons..either good or bad!

Thanks Ladies!!

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Asked by Anonymous at 1:37 PM on Dec. 13, 2010 in Relationships

Answers (22)
  • I always try to put myself in other peoples shoes. Wouldn't want anyone doing that to me. So I don't do it to them. Simple enough.

    Answer by arenad at 1:38 PM on Dec. 13, 2010

  • No. If he's serious about ending things with his wife, he'd be divorced. I'm not interested in being someone's whore.

    Answer by Ginger0104 at 1:39 PM on Dec. 13, 2010

  • If I were single and childless.....I probably would.

    Answer by GetfitwitMaisha at 1:39 PM on Dec. 13, 2010

  • I wouldn't! I wouldn't feel comfortable.


    Answer by kiansmom0423 at 1:39 PM on Dec. 13, 2010

  • Still no. If they are still living together, the feelings they shared could rehash and I'll get my heart broken.

    Answer by keisha613 at 1:40 PM on Dec. 13, 2010

  • I'm the same as arenad, would I want someone doing that to me? Heck no. If he was serious about dating, he could get a divorce, simple as that.

    Answer by Nanixh at 1:40 PM on Dec. 13, 2010

  • if he has his reasons and he even lets me meet his wife and she tells me in my face we not in love no more y not but just be sure but its a very sticky situation cause what if they catch feeling for each other

    Answer by cnoble927 at 1:40 PM on Dec. 13, 2010

  • I have to say I probably would not. I agree that I would not want someone doing this to me.

    Answer by cornflakegirl3 at 1:40 PM on Dec. 13, 2010

  • No way I'd get involved in that type of drama. That's some major baggage thats not even firmly in his past yet.

    Answer by vicesix at 1:41 PM on Dec. 13, 2010

  • No. I wouldn't be with a man who would stay living with someone for financial reasons. That's ridiculous. I also agree if he's serious about ending things they would be divorced. & if she only knows these things from the man... he's probably lying to get some more nookie!!!

    Answer by Kisses4Henry at 1:42 PM on Dec. 13, 2010

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