My boyfriend and I have been talking about moving to NH since June. in July we find out we are expecting. Well, its not stopping us from moving. But I am. I have my 6 yr old son whom lives with his father, and has for just over 3 yrs. According to the state of Florida, his dad has custody not me. I feel moving will help me get where I want to be, and offer more opportunities, and a better future for my son. I feel guilty for wanting to move away, but as a mom I can't give the ok yet. I know ppl do it everyday, and im not running away, im trying to make a better life. I have family home that can help me/us. I want to have my son live with me, but his dad will put up a fight, cause our son is all he has. Im willing to go for custody, but I need to make sure I have what is needed to provide for him. anyways... my bf said he knows it will be hard for me to leave and wonders if I can go through with it... that why he leaving the ok up to me... am i a bad mom for wanting to move away and do better??? (of course ill have vacations to see him and have him durnig summers and all).. ughhhh please dont make me feel more horrible for leaving without my son.. just need little advice..Answer Question
How often do you see your son now?
Answer by JeremysMom at 7:54 PM on Dec. 13, 2010
Answer by FluffyMamaBunny at 7:56 PM on Dec. 13, 2010
I think you just answered your own question then. If every other weekend and a few times during the week is not enough, then a few weeks throughout the year and during the summer, definitely won't be enough. I don't know your situation but is there any way to stay in Florida or not to far from your son and still do what you want to do?
Answer by JeremysMom at 8:02 PM on Dec. 13, 2010
Is there any way to get child support lowered until you can get back up on your feet?
Answer by JeremysMom at 8:06 PM on Dec. 13, 2010
Answer by ShouldHaveLeft at 8:14 PM on Dec. 13, 2010
Answer by carisa368 at 9:19 PM on Dec. 13, 2010
Answer by MamiJaAyla at 10:18 PM on Dec. 13, 2010