My sister has no money to get her four kids Christmas gifts. I've been collecting some toys and stuff to send to her children, but I can always send them to her so she can wrap them up and give the items from HER, not me.
I'd also like to send her a couple hundred dollars, but I don't want her to think I've got lots of cash lying around, and that she can count on me for monetary aid in the future. I've had this problem with my family before. I'll "lend" $50 to one member. Word gets around, and pretty soon another family member will call me, asking for a "loan". I'm not made of money, but I have some money saved (because I'm frugal and saving a portion of my monthly income).
How would you handle this situation?
Asked by Anonymous at 9:57 PM on Dec. 13, 2010 in Relationships
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