I just found out that i was pregnant and it was surprise because this wasn't planned but my husband and i are very happy about this. When i told my mother about it she just went on and on about all the negatives. When we told my in laws my FIL started to scold us like we were children and then said "well i guess congratulations" and my MIL wouldn't even talk about it she just changed the subject. it really hurt both myself and my husband. I just don't understand why people can't just be happy. i understand being shocked at first i was to because we using BC but that fails sometimes. I just don't understand why they can't be happy. This is my second pregnancy. With my first we got nothing but negative things said to us. I was 20 at the time. My mother went as far to ask me if i wanted to get an abortion or if i couldn't do then i should consider adoption. But after mys on was born everyone went on and on about how happy they were for him to be here and what a wonderful mother i am. Why can't we just skip all this drama?Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 12:14 AM on Dec. 14, 2010 in Relationships
Answer by mommy_of_two388 at 12:18 AM on Dec. 14, 2010
Yes my mother always said stuff like don't you remember how you got that way the first time? CONGRATULATIONS TO YOU AND YOUR HUSBAND!!!!
Answer by pinkdragon36 at 12:23 AM on Dec. 14, 2010
Congratulations Momma to you and your husband. I wish for you a healthy easy pregnacy and a quick birth.
Answer by mistynights234 at 12:26 AM on Dec. 14, 2010
Answer by FluffyMamaBunny at 12:26 AM on Dec. 14, 2010
Don't let it get you down. That is the same reaction we got with our second child too! It's your life. Sometimes, no matter how hard we try, no one is going to be happy for us, so we have to be happy for ourselves!
Answer by m-avi at 12:27 AM on Dec. 14, 2010
Answer by Babylove76 at 12:53 AM on Dec. 14, 2010
Answer by thtqrljess07 at 2:23 AM on Dec. 14, 2010
Whens the party? Sending out baby pictures and invitations put parents in a good mood. If they are to busy, hint around in the invites that you take paper or plastic. LOL You are right, when it comes time for that bundle of joy, most parents trip over themselves to get the first glance. Ha!Ha!
Answer by sexyfancyface at 2:25 AM on Dec. 14, 2010
Answer by LiLJeni at 12:44 PM on Dec. 14, 2010
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