So my BIL's wife has two kids with different dads, and separate families. These kids are 18 and 15 years old. She had them calling BIL daddy within weeks of dating and when they came to visit, started calling my FIL Grandpa. FIL isn't comfortable with this. He doesn't know these kids, nor does he care for them(lazy, entitled, rude). So Grandpa is writing out his will and BIL's wife thinks his "grandchildren" should be in it. BIL never adopted them, and the kids have dads and don't feel for him as their dad, and have other family...Is it just me or is something wrong with this picture? My FIL has no desire for these children. I'm wondering where it was her business where FIL puts his money.
Asked by Anonymous at 12:45 AM on Dec. 14, 2010 in Relationships
Answer by Mme.Langley at 4:12 PM on Dec. 14, 2010
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Answer by MotherAndMore at 6:07 AM on Dec. 14, 2010
"It's sad that FIL g doesn't want to acknowledge the kids as his grandkids...but whatever. I wouldn't want my kids to have anything to do with his money."
You need to go back and read the question again. These kids are NOT his grandkids!! The OP made that abundantly clear. Before you answer someones question - READ it in it's entirety and THEN try to answer it.....maybe then you won't look like a jackass.
Answer by Babylove76 at 9:30 AM on Dec. 14, 2010
Sometimes money can be the root of all evil. Stay happy with your choices.....let go of others.
The actual saying is:
"For the LOVE of money is the root of all kinds of evil...." ~I Timothy 6:10
Note: I emphasized LOVE. It's not that money all in it's self is evil - it's the love, craving, the uncontrolable NEED to have it that is the root of "all kinds of evil".
Answer by Babylove76 at 9:35 AM on Dec. 14, 2010
Answer by mom42107 at 12:21 PM on Dec. 14, 2010